So the next couple weeks at church I get to talk about sex. That can be pretty awesome or somewhat scary to the people who are actually going to listen. It's actually awesome and scary to me too, thankfully I am just preaching the same message that comes from God's Word so there shouldn't be anything to be fearful about--still I am greatly anticipating the moment(s). I hope you are too!
As I've been researching the subject (insert funny joke) it's crazy to think about how sex crazed our culture is. Do you know that the porn industry revenue in 2006 was estimated at 10-14 billion dollars? That's more revenue than pro baseball, football, and basketball combined. That's more than what our country spent on foreign aid last year. Words like depressing, shocked, and sickened probably don't even begin to express our emotions when we hear this. Maybe it doesn't surprise you...
Corinthian culture had a saying that Paul used quite often in his letters to the Corinthians, "Everything is permissible for me!" Paul responded by saying basically that while it may be permissible not everything is beneficial--and it could lead to being mastered by something (addiction). American culture's slogan might go something like "Do what feels good--as long as it doesn't hurt anyone." Well, pornography hurts people. Pornography hurts the user in untold mental, psychological, emotional, and spiritual ways. It hurts the relationships that the user has with other people, specifically with their spouse and their children. It hurts the women who are abused and objectified.
Most importantly sexual sin (whether it is pornography, fornication, homosexuality, anything outside of marriage) hurts our relationship with our Creator who formed us for a committed union with him and a committed union with a spouse of opposite gender.
"Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever--the kind of sex that can never 'become one.'"
1 Corinthians 6:18 (The Message)
I hope Christian men and women start to stand up and seek becoming one with the Master (Jesus) and one with their spouse--in all areas of life. I hope men and women realize that their bodies are meant to be "living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God", not as something to be given in worship to something else. Sex and lust are basically acts of worship. As Mark Driscoll would say--"worshiping the created instead of the Creator." (you should check out his "Real Marriage" series)
I want to end this post with a message to the guys. If you have an issue with lust, man you are not alone, but it is way past time to deal with it. Talk to someone about it, get help, repent, and know that it is hurting a lot of people, most of all, it is hurting your relationship with Christ. Stop worshiping the created and start worshiping the Creator.